Such a concept is not foreign, it’s not outrageous. In fact there is an embodiment of all these concepts South Africa has held in tradition for a long time called Ubuntu. Simply put, Ubuntu is the concept that the individual is defined through his relationship with the entire community. It’s a concept that strikes at the heart of self sacrifice, of what really makes a family. As Archbishop Desmond Tutu put it,
“A person with Ubuntu is open and available to others, does not feel threatened that others are able and good, for he or she has proper self assurance that comes from knowing that he or she belongs in a greater whole and is diminished when others are humiliated or diminished.”
Remember this the next coming months. Many people are fighting for those spots on the a-team and fighting for playing time no matter where they end up. In the process we can take this so hard, we can blow up every drop, every missed assignment, and every errant throw. But remember, everyone that sacrifices their time and their body to be a part of this family belongs in this family. No number of mistakes will ever take that away from you. There is nothing but effort and sincerity required. So do not be threatened by your teammates. Do not enter into competition so deeply that you cease to remember this. That person you’re lining up against in practice is there to make the community stronger by making you stronger. They are counting on you to do the same.
This does not mean we ignore ourselves however. Concerning this Nelson Mandela says, “Ubuntu does not mean people should not enrich themselves. The question therefore is: Are you going to do so in order to enable the community around you to improve?” Keep that cemented in your mind in these coming months. You’re working everyday for that person next to you on the field and they are doing the same for you. This does not guarantee success but it guarantees effort, and it guarantees that win or lose its going to happen the right way. We’ve gone through the sub-zero practices together. We’ve cheered each other on through the cross fits. We’ve played through injuries. We’ve organized the summer leagues. We’ve kept each other awake during the endless drives. We’ve sacrificed our bed spots. We’ve sacrificed entire weekends to only come back for the next week more tired than when we left. We’ve been there for each other day in and day out, and boys this is only the beginning. Like I said the road ahead of us is long. Believe me there are going to be days you wished you didn’t join the ultimate team, Sunday nights when you get back at 3 in the morning, knees aflame and bruises abound only to realize you have a full week of school and practice ahead of you. It’s going to be a set of months that we won’t be able to get through, that we wont’ be able to succeed through unless we remember every single day that we are a family and Ubuntu is all that matters.